Shower Trauma

When I moved into my current flat, the shower had no shower-head. Firstly I judged the person who stayed before me- seriously she took her shower-head with her. (A year later I ask for her forgiveness, as I understand her better.) Lesson one– dont judge people FULL STOP! After realizing I had no showerhead I…

Sprinkle Kindness around like confetti

The other day I was driving from Hwange and we took a break at Lupane. When I got out, there was a biker man at the service station. He greeted me in French and I responded in French and he was totally delighted with my responses. He wanted to know where I learnt the language…

Embrace your inner childhood

I have been on a change of perspective and how important it is to change your outlook to see the joy in life. The other day I was on Pinterest and I saw a quote about embracing your inner childhood and it got me thinking. It said: This quote delighted my heart because it says…

Focus on what’s in front of you

The other day I drove from Harare to Marondera in the evening and I got so frustrated that I couldn’t see the whole road ahead. Even with my lights on flash I could only see just a few meters ahead of me. Not seeing the whole road didn’t stop me from arriving to my destination….

God is a Creative

As I overlook the Zambezi River All I see is the wondrous beauty the Earth has bestowed; I bask in the surreal splendor that surrounds us And listen to nature composing the land’s grand opus The sounds of whispering trees and burbling Zambezi streams, God is a creative! Shimmering expanse, mercurial waves spark The Victoria…

You can rise from anything!

Sometimes life seems absolutely impossible but I can reassure you, you will rise up. You can completely recreate yourself, nothing is permanent. You are not a tree you are not stuck. You can think new thoughts, you can learn something new, be in a different country, start a fresh business, be in a new relationship…

Master of Disguise

Easy to mask depression when you are a man after all boys should not cry! Let’s go out with the boys, let’s drink, let’s be passionate about soccer, let’s find the thrill of being with different women, let’s dive into work, but in reality let’s mask the pain of life! Men have been taught; toughen…

The harsh reality of survival in today’s world

Deadlines, bills, family, health, death, divorce, money, decisions, jobs, failed relationships and mental health issues. These are our current modern-day problems as we all try to stay afloat, trying to make sense of a world that is senseless. Adulting is just not as easy as we thought it would be! I am not one who…

My brain & heart divorced a decade ago

My brain and my heart divorced a decade ago over who wasto blame about how big of a messI have become eventually,they couldn’t bein the same roomwith each other now my head and heartshare custody of me I stay with my brainduring the weekand my heartgets me on weekends they never speak to one another…